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I would dread being unobtainable by phone for any amount of time as I knew he would become anxious and the questioning would start again.
I ended the relationship 3 weeks after my return from the USA for our second visit, five months after we started dating..
This is because when you’re in a long distance relationship it’s harder to figure out if the warning signs you’re spotting are serious enough to warrant you calling things off or whether things will get better if you just hang in there (or if you could live in the same place).
Without further ado, here is Kim to share about her long distance relationship, why she chose to end it, and seven signs that should make you consider ending your own relationship if you see them in your own LDR.
In these cases, long distance is just compounding serious challenges that would have been present in the relationship anyway.
When this happens in a LDR, however, the distance can even make you stay in the relationship longer than you would have otherwise.
So he would ask who I was texting, and if I was free then why wasn’t it him I was talking to?
I felt as though I was being interrogated for just living my life, but at the same time I wondered if I was overreacting and being too dramatic.Initially I just put these sorts of comments down to the difference in our cultures, us never having met, etc.And in the spirit of giving him the benefit of the doubt, I agreed for him to come and visit me in England. We visited a great restaurant in London with fantastic views over the Thames. When you’re in the exciting early stages of a new relationship it can be really hard to see these warning signs for what they are—serious issues with insecurity and controlling behavior.He even began reading a book to help with his insecurities and anxiety.I wasn’t sure but, again, I gave him the benefit of the doubt. I never lied to him about my whereabouts or who I was with, and I made clear my intentions for our relationship.